I’m suspicious about my husband’s lockdown walks with another woman
DEAR DEIDRE: I’M suspicious about my husband’s lockdown walks with another woman.
He is 37 and I am 34 and I have discovered that he’s been on several long rambles through the woods with a woman from our village.
He denies anything has happened, but it’s made me feel really insecure.
Six years ago, when we first got together, he had a sexual encounter with a family friend while out hiking.
I forgave him, but his new woodland walks have brought it all back.
We’ve been married for three years, and I love him dearly, but I don’t feel I can trust him.
Our sex life is practically non-existent. This is eating away at me.
How do I approach this?
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DEIDRE SAYS: It’s not surprising you’re worried, given his track record.
It sounds like he wasn’t upfront with you and you deserve to know the truth.
Tell him that you need to talk, to try to sort things out.
Be clear how much it would hurt you if he cheated on you again.
Explain you want to make your relationship as good as possible – and that you realise a big part of that is a fulfilling sex life.
You both need to have an honest conversation about what improvements are needed.
My support pack Saving Your Sex Life will help.
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